In Loving Memory of Sùng Thị Máy
A Life of Strength and Resilience
Born on 11 January 1925, during the era of French Indochina, Sùng Thị Máy witnessed a century of profound change in northern Vietnam. Her life was shaped by both hardship and courage. She lost her husband during the Chinese invasion of northern Vietnam in 1979 and spent her later years in a small mountain home, caring for her five great-grandchildren.
Despite her age, Máy continued to gather firewood daily for cooking, while the eldest of the children searched for food in the surrounding forest. Her simple yet determined way of life reflected her enduring spirit and love for her family.
Meeting ETHOS
Our paths first crossed with Máy in 2017, when we found her collecting plastic waste from bins in the town of Sapa. At 92 years old, she was living on the streets, sorting recyclables to earn a small income. Moved by her story and resilience, ETHOS began a support project for her in 2020.
Through regular food, clothing, and medical assistance, Máy was able to return to her mountain home and live with dignity once more. Her quiet gratitude and humour touched everyone who met her.
A Remarkable Recovery
In December 2023, Máy fell seriously ill with pneumonia. Hoa arranged her hospital treatment, and thanks to care and determination, she recovered enough to be discharged after about ten days. During her stay, we learned more about her past and her remarkable resilience.
She shared how her grandchildren, who had been opium growers, were imprisoned in 2023, leaving her to care for the five young great-grandchildren alone. After leaving hospital, Máy stayed at the ETHOS community centre to continue her recovery.
During those weeks, she spent her days telling stories, twisting hemp fibres and sharing her traditional textile knowledge with our younger team members. Her patience and wisdom became a source of quiet inspiration to all of us.
A Legacy of Love
Sùng Thị Máy’s life was a testament to courage, endurance and love. She was a devoted mother, grandmother and great-grandmother whose kindness and strength will not be forgotten. Her youthful smile, sharp mind and gentle humour stayed with her until her final days.
Máy’s story reminds us of the beauty in simplicity and the power of compassion. She leaves behind not only her family but also a community forever touched by her warmth and grace.
Closing Reflection
We will remember Máy for her laughter, her hands always busy with work, and her heart full of love. Her spirit continues to live on in the mountains she called home and in the memories of all who had the privilege to know her.
